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The Power of Coach Supervision Sessions<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cWe only have two sessions left<\/strong> and I\u2019m no closer to achieving the outcomes I\u2019m being paid for.\u201d Jeremy said.<\/p>\n

Jeremy is an experienced coach, with the grey hair and wrinkles of a life well lived. He\u2019s been coaching since forever and there\u2019s not much he\u2019s not helped people with. But this client had got him stumped.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve heard the same story many times in coach supervision sessions<\/a>. I\u2019ve worked with a lot of coaches for whom the pressure to achieve the outcomes for the client has unconsciously been getting in their way of actually being able to deliver. This time felt different.<\/p>\n

My intuition and experience told me to explore the feeling with him in a little more depth. What was Jeremy feeling? Frustration, pressure of a looming deadline, a strong desire to achieve the change but unable to effect the change he knew he needed to make, a sense of time running out.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve used all the usual tools in my kitbag,<\/strong> and I still haven\u2019t got anywhere.\u201d He said. Wasn\u2019t this exactly what his client was experiencing? His client had moved from a job that he\u2019d been very good at, and knew how to do, to a new job that required a whole new skill set, and he had no idea how to effect the change needed. He wanted to change but somehow couldn\u2019t do it, although his boss had extended the deadline, he knew that his boss wouldn\u2019t wait forever.<\/p>\n

I explained parallel process to Jeremy, how as coaches, we experience the feelings that our clients are experiencing and without awareness, we misread them as our own. When the feelings are looked at as data, other information that we collect in a non-intellectual capacity, it opens up a whole new avenue to explore with our clients.<\/p>\n

As he saw the potential truth of that, in coach supervision sessions, I saw a shift in Jeremy and I knew that next time he met with his client, he would be different with him. We didn\u2019t explore what he would do, or how he would be different because I\u2019ve seen this shift often enough to know that in the moment, trusting his own intuition, having seen what he\u2019d now seen, he would know what to do when the time is right.<\/p>\n

Maria Iliffe-Wood<\/a> is a coach supervisor, leadership growth coach and team coach. She also works with coaches who would like to write a book but either can\u2019t get started or who have got writer\u2019s block. Maria<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0is the author of Coaching Presence, Building Consciousness and Awareness into Coaching Conversations<\/a> an academic book for coaches and a second book which is something completely different, Daily Yarns, Riding the Lockdown Roller Coaster of Emotions.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Read more blogs about Coaching Supervision – Does a newly qualified coach need supervision?<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The Power of Coach Supervision Sessions \u201cWe only have two sessions left and I\u2019m no closer to achieving the outcomes I\u2019m being paid for.\u201d Jeremy said. Jeremy is an experienced coach, with the grey hair and wrinkles of a life well lived. He\u2019s been coaching since forever and there\u2019s not much he\u2019s not helped people […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":937,"featured_media":7264,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[122],"tags":[101,142],"class_list":["post-7263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-case_study_coach_supervision","tag-coaching","tag-supervision"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nWhat do I do as a coach when I've used up all of my tools? - Trusted Coach Directory<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Coach Supervision sessions \u201cWe only have two sessions left and I\u2019m no closer to achieving the outcomes I\u2019m being paid for.\u201d Jeremy said.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/what-do-i-do-as-a-coach-when-ive-used-up-all-of-my-tools\/\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Maria Iliffe-Wood\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Estimated reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":[\"Article\",\"BlogPosting\"],\"@id\":\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/what-do-i-do-as-a-coach-when-ive-used-up-all-of-my-tools\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/what-do-i-do-as-a-coach-when-ive-used-up-all-of-my-tools\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Maria Iliffe-Wood\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/#\/schema\/person\/3464874f8f0feb0ccc5b66bd91356b0a\"},\"headline\":\"What do I do as a coach when I’ve used up all of my tools?\",\"datePublished\":\"2020-08-17T08:15:57+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2023-02-16T15:59:47+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/what-do-i-do-as-a-coach-when-ive-used-up-all-of-my-tools\/\"},\"wordCount\":507,\"commentCount\":0,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/#organization\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/what-do-i-do-as-a-coach-when-ive-used-up-all-of-my-tools\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/red-toolbox-scaled.jpg\",\"keywords\":[\"Coaching\",\"Supervision\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Case study - coach supervision\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-GB\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/what-do-i-do-as-a-coach-when-ive-used-up-all-of-my-tools\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/what-do-i-do-as-a-coach-when-ive-used-up-all-of-my-tools\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/trustedcoachdirectory.com\/what-do-i-do-as-a-coach-when-ive-used-up-all-of-my-tools\/\",\"name\":\"What do I do as a coach when I've used up all of my tools? 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